Guidance to Grow Vilomah - The loss of a child

Navigating conversations about death

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People have varied relationships with death, shaped by personal experiences and cultural backgrounds. Despite our differences, there is a universal truth that death is an inevitable part of life, and losing loved ones is a shared experience.

When there has been a loss, it is important to discuss death within families openly. These conversations, though uncomfortable, play a vital role in providing emotional support. We encourage you to embrace the discomfort and approach these discussions with empathy, fostering emotional well-being and effective navigation of the emotional aspects of death.

In this episode of Vilomah, Jeanne van den Bergh offers a concise exploration of the significance of talking about death, providing personal reflections and insights to guide you in approaching this often-taboo subject with greater understanding and compassion.
7 Dec 2023 English South Africa Kids & Family

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