My journey with grief

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The loss of children is a pain all bereaved parents share, and it is a degree of suffering that is impossible to grasp without experiencing it first-hand. An out-of-order death such as child loss breaks a person (especially a parent) in a way that is not fixable or solvable. We will learn to pick up the pieces and move forward, but our lives will never be the same. Every grieving parent must find a way to continue to live with loss, and it's a solitary journey. In this episode of Vilomah, Jeanne van den Bergh shares her own story of losing her daughter.

28 Oct 2021 English South Africa Kids & Family Jeanne van den Bergh

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