Ezomndeni
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Ngakube ngicwile ezinkambeni?
Kugcine sekukholakala ukuthi ukuze ube ngumcwili ophuzweni umelwe ukushona ngamadevu ophuzweni usuku nosuku. Kodwa lokho akusilo iqiniso neze. Kahle hle kuyenzeka ube ngocwile ezinkambani ngisho kwawena ungaziboni.
Izisekelo zebhayibheli ngokunikelela abampofu
Lithini ibhayibheli ngenhlupheko nokunikelela abampofu? Ngifuna ukukuqonda ngobuNkulunkulu lokhu,kodwa nje eqinisweni kimi njengomzalwane osemusha eNkosini ngibe nokudideka ngeminye imibono ngeminikelo engizwe ngayo.Ngakuba nibuka lesisenzo njengesinye esimqoka empilweni yobuKhrestu?
Ingcindezi nokuzibulala: Izimpawu nezexwayisayo
Uma kukhona omaziyo oseduze nawe onengcindezi, nakanjani umelwe ukulalela loluhlelo Ezomndeni lakhona namhlanje sizobe sixoxa ngamaphuzu ambeka engozini kunye nezimpawu ezexwayisayo ngengcindezi nokuzibulala.Ungabe usaya ndawo.
Ingane esikhulile ithwele kanzima ngezothando oluseceleni lomzali nomlingani wakhe
Abazali bami basanda kuhlukanisa ngoba uMawami wayephinga .Kusuka lapho usehlala nalomlisa futhi bahlela ukushadana kungekudala .mina nomnyeni wami siphila eceleni,futhi sekwenze kwanzima ukubhekana nakho konke lokhu. UMawami ungidinelwe ukungemukeli leli soka lakhe ngezandla ezifudumele. Usabisa nokungasaphinda ahlanganyele nathi uma sinemcimbi yomndeni, kodwa eqinisweni ngempela ,angimfuni lomlisa wakhe. Ngicabanga nginobunzima ukusebenza…
Ingane enekhanda eliqinile iveza umoya wokukulumana
Wenze njani ngengane ehlasela abanye abantu ngamazinyo ayo? Ingane yethu esencane ekhombisa ukuba nenkani seyikhombise lomoya izinyangana ezimbalwa.Siwumisa kanjani lomkhuba kuyona?
Indodakazi ayimhloniphi umkhwenyana wayo
Uma ungumama wendodakazi esishadile, nebala uyazi ukuthi izinga liyashintsha kakhulu. Lengane yakho esikhulile isiphumile esandleni sakho, kodwa manje isinomndeni wayo ozimele.
I-adoption nokwelapha i-Sensory Processing Disorder
Luhloboluni lwemithi ekhona kumbe izelapho ezinganeni ezithwele kanzima nge Sensory Processing Disorder? Sinomfana oyi-foster kithi onesemumva lakhe labe linokuhlukunyezwa okukhulu. Emva kokuba sesihlale phansi nabezempilo sithole ukuthi izinkinga zakhe eziningi, zilele kwisemumva lakhe futhi zingalashwa ngokwemizwa yengqondo.
Ogogo nomkhulu bakhathazeke ngesimo sezempilo ekhaya labazukulu
Njengogogo nomkhulu kunganzima kwesinye isikhathi ukuba yisibukeli lakhona ubuzali sebusemahlombe engane yakho. Uye uzizwe sengathi ungenza kangcono kunayo ezinganeni zayo.
Ukugconana emndenini
Ngakube umndeni wakho ngomunye wemindeni ekhonze ukuncokola kuqhume uhleko? Ngakube uzithola wenza ihlaya ngamanye amalungu omndeni ze wonke umuntu ahleke? Ukugcona abanye kungenza umndeni unamathelane. Nokho, uma kwenziwe ngendlela engalungile, ukugconana kungaholela odweshwini olukhulu emndenini.
Ukuziphatha kabi ngocansi nokusondela ngokwenyama phambi komshado
Abantu abasha abaningi abengena othandweni bazithola kunzima ukuzigcina bemsulwa phambi komshado. Ibhayibheli lihlaba liqonde nje ngalesihloko, nakuba abanye bezama ukuliphikisa kumbe bathi sekwaphupha elikushoyo.
Ukusondela kolahlekelwe ngothandiweyo wakhe ngokuzibulala
Ukuzibulala kwentsha kuphezulu njengokuba izithola ithe shi kwi-negative thinking futhi izithole kujikelezo lwengcindezo nemizwa yokungabi nathemba. Ohlelweni Ezomndeni namhlanje siza nokuthi ungasondela kanjani kumhlobo onosizi olahlekelwe ngothandiweyo wakhe ngokuzibulala.
Ebuzalini i-quality time iqhathaniswa ne-quantity time
Kulezinsuku esiphila kuzo ekukhuleni kwe-technology, kanjalo nabazali besebenza amahora amade ukondla imindeni yabo, isikhathi nezingane sesiphazamisekile,ngeshwa ucwaningo lukhombisa umthelela ongemuhle, walempilo emndenini uwonkana. Abanye abazali bakholwa ngukuthi uma bengondla kahle imindeni yabo bayithengele izinto ezicelayo, benze okwanele ukuba ngabazali.
Abazali abankamunkamu nomakoti nondodana
Ukugcina ubudlelwano nezingane zakho esezikhulile, kunye neziganene nabo kuhlale kungelula. Namuhla ohlelweni Ezomndeni sizokhuluma ngabazali osekunoqhekeko kundodana nomalokazana wabo futhi abangazi ukuthi lolufa bazolulungisa kanjani.
Abazali baphikisana ukuletha usizo enganeni esikhulile
Kuhlale kunzima kumama ukuvalelisa enganeni yakhe esikhulile uma seyinquma ukuzimela, qede ibhekane nempilo injalo. Kodwa uma lengane esikhulile yehluleka ukuzimela, omama basikwa yizinseko qede bafune ukuyitakula.
Izingane nobungani obuphilile
Uma ungumzali kuba nzima ukuba yisibukeli ngesikhathi ingane yakho ihlulwa ukukhetha kahle abangane.Impilo yokuphilisana nabantu enganeni yakho isemqoka ngoba umuntu ubunjwa wuhlobo lwabantu abamzungezile.
Umehluko ongukhiye phakathi kowesilisa nowesifazane
Umphakathi usuba nokungawuqondi kanye nokungawunaki umehluko ocacile phakathi kowesilisa nowesifazane.
Ukuhlelela ukulala kosana kunye no-mbhede womndeni
Uthini umbono wenu wokuba izingane zilale nabazali bazo? Umngani wami ukholwa ngukuthi ‘umbhede womndeni’ ulusizo kulo lonke ilunga lomndeni.Uze ame ekutheni lenqubo ingavikela ukushona kwengane ngenxa yokucinana ancome nokunye okuhle kwezempilo.
Ophelelwe yithemba uzizwa eyisehluleki (Ingxenye yesibili kwezimbili)
Phambilini ohlelweni ezomndeni sasiphendula ukububula komlaleli wethu owayefuna usizo owayezizwa njengesehluleki nawaselahlekelwe yithemba empilweni yakhe. Ukukhala okunjalo kuyithinta ngokujulile inhliziyo yethu futhi siye sifune ukungenelela sisize ngokushesha.
Ophelelwe yithemba uzizwa eyisehluleki (Ingxenye yokuqala kwezimbili)
Sewake waba sesimweni la kusengathi impilo iyama futhi ithemba liyaphela?Leyomizwa akumele neze ithathwe kalula, kumele futhi ihlaziywe ngoseceleni ongakwazi ukuletha ukubona okwehlukile esimweni. Abantu abazizwa belahlekelwe yithemba, bayinhliziyo yethu la kwa Focus on the Family
Ubaba okhathazeke ngentombazana engena ebutshtshini esikluluza abafana
Ngakube intombazane eneminyaka engu-12 isencane kakhulu ukuqala ukukhombisa umcabango ngomuntu wesilisa?Mina nomnyeni wami sinombono ohlukene ngaloludaba.Indodakazi yami ivamisa ukuthi uma inomngani wayo sibabhadame bencoma abafana abahle. Ngokwami lokhu ngikubuka kuyinto ejwayelekile ekungeneni ekuthombeni. Umkhwenyana wami yena ukholelwa ngukuthi isencane kabi ukuqala ibe naleyomcabango futhi uma ikhula izokhalakatheka kweqe.Ngiyamhlonipha kakhulu umkhwenyana…