Indodakazi ayimhloniphi umkhwenyana wayo

Kungabanzima kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi kuzomele ume kanjani esikhaleni sokusiza umngani wakho osekulileni kokushonelwa ngothandiweyo wakhe. Imvamisa asazi sibhekane kanjani nabantu abalilayo kumbe abesebuhlungwini obukhulu bemizwa yenhliziyo,okugcina sesiba namahloni sihlehle kulomsebenzi. Uma ufuna ukuba yilolohlobo lomuntu oluletha uhlobo olufanele lokuzwelana nomuntu ,nokunikeza umngani ithuba lokukhala, ngakho lalelisisa kahle ngoba la ohlelweni…

Ngingaluphatha kanjani udaba lokutholakala ukuthi elinye ilunga lozalo lomndeni womngani wami luphoqa ingane yakhe ukuyihlobonga ngocansi ? Angifuni ukungena ezindabeni zabanye abantu ,kodwa ngoba manje sengithole lolulwazi ngizizwa kumele kube nengikwenzayo.Kukhona enikuphakamisayo?

Uthi bewazi nje ukuthi izingane zithola injabulo enkulu ngisho ezintweni ezincane, nanjengokuba zijabulela nezinkulu futhi? Ngakho uma ukuqondile ukuhlakulela ubundawonye nezingane zakho, izinto ezifana nokudla isidlo sasekuseni nindawonye, imidlalo ukuziculela amaculo asamdlalwana nisemotweni noma nizihlalele, lokho kusengaphenduka kube yinto izingane zakho ezingasoze zayikhohlwa ekukhuleni kwazo.

Umndeni wethu ungadla kanjani ndawonye nanxa umatasa? Ngiyafuna ngempela ukufeza lempokophelo ,kodwa sibhekene nezingqinamba eziningi ,futhi ngiyesaba nokusaba.Ama-schedule ahlale egcwele ,sekuyinqubo yethu ekhaya neyami nayo iyanyinyitheka.Esikhathini engiphuma ngaso emsebenzini kusuke sekuyukuyojama kwi traffic ,ekhaya ngifike ngo 6:00 sekukusihlwa vese.Ngalesosikhathi ngiyazi ukuthi mangase ngimoshe isikhathi eside ngenza izidlo ezihlabahlosi ,ngingathi ngiqeda…

Kugcine sekukholakala ukuthi ukuze ube ngumcwili ophuzweni umelwe ukushona ngamadevu ophuzweni usuku nosuku. Kodwa lokho akusilo iqiniso neze. Kahle hle kuyenzeka ube ngocwile ezinkambani ngisho kwawena ungaziboni.