#DoesGivingUltimatumsWork, especially in relationships?

It always starts with "if you don't do this, i will..."
The one ultimatum that is uncomfortable to make but necessary is when she says "Marry me, or else..."

This is normally after he dragged his feet for years just dating and not doing right by her.

Is it a Threat Or a need for Urgency? #DoesGivingUltimatumsWork

As a man, have you ever been close to losing your partner and she gave you an ultimatum? Why did you stay? #DoesGivingUltimatumsWork