Ezomndeni
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Isishabasheki esingumkhrestu ezinsukwini zokugcina
Uma kuyizinsuku zokugcina lezi ,kungani AmaKhrestu kumele athandaze aphinde azibandakanye kwezokwenza ngcono imiphakathi? Ama-ministry amaningi, njengale yenu ithi amakholwa mawahambise ivangeli ,akhulekele izisombululo zezinkinga ezinjengendlala nokuhlupheka,kusetshenzwe ukuguqula umthethosisekelo wezwe lethu .Nginenkinga enkulu kabi mina ngalokho.Ukulifunda kwami ibhayibheli ,nokuqonda kwami izinsuku zokugcina kungitshela ukuthi yisizukulwane sokugcina lesi futhi uKhrestu useyabuya masinyane…
Izidakamizwa nokuzibulala kwentsha
Bukuphi ubudlelwane phakathi kwezidakamizwa ,wuphuzo nokuzibulala kwentsha ? Yikuphi okumele sikwenze uma sisola ukuthi ingane yethu ikwinkinga -yokunye kwalokhu kuziphatha?
Umzali oyedwana olangazelele ukusizwa, kanye nokuthola ozobambisana naye
Njengomama o-single nezingane ezintathu ezisencane,ngakube kuhle kimi ukufuna omunye umuntu ongaba yi-support kimina ukuthwala lomthwalo? Ngangivamise ukuzizwa nginelisekile ,kodwa umthwalo wokukuthwala konke ngingedwa ,uya ngokuya ungisinda.Ngisebenza fulltime ,ngiyafunda online futhi ,ngiphinde ngibe semsebenzini webandla engikulona.Zikhona izeluleko eninazo kumuntu osesimweni sami?
Intsha negebe lomuzwa wezocansi
Kungani uNkulunkulu wanika ama-teenager ukulangazelela okukhulu kwezocansi ,bese aphinde engaba esawanika indlela enempilo yokukunelisa ? Kubukeka lokhu kungekho -fair. Ezikhathini zasebhayibhelini abantu babeshada bebancane. Ngenxa yalokho ,kwakuyimpilo ukushesha ungene kwezocansi nokukhulisa izingane usemncane. Kodwa kulezinsuku ,abantu abaningi bayanyukubala uma ama- teenager eshesha engena ocansini. Kungani uNkulunkulu asinike lemizwa uma singeke…
Abazali bakhathazekile nge-homework eningi
Ngenze njani uma ingane yami esafunda e-primary ine- homework eningi kakhulu ,okugcina kwehlisa nesikhathi sokuba ndawonye siwmundeni? Njalo ntambama uba namahora amaningi awasebenzisa enza ama-assignment. Ngokokubuka kwami kwamanje akathathi kancane ekuqedeni emsebenzini. Yingoba muningi kakhulu umsebenzi wakhe. Ngakube wonke lama –homework amangaka adingekile ekufundeni nasekuthuthukeni kwempilo yengane esakhula?
Ukusiza ingane ibhekane nempilo yesahlukaniso
Ngingawasiza kanjani ama teenager ami abhekane nokuklayeka komshado wami? Kubuhlungu kithi sonke,kodwa ngikhathazeke kakhulu ngondodana wami omdala .Kusuka uyise wangishiya emva konyaka,ubukeka ezifaka engcindezini enkulu ukuba yindoda layikhaya.Lokhu kunzima kakhulu kuyena ngoba ngonyaka ozayo ubebheke ukuya e –university .Manje ubona kumphoqa alekelele ekhaya.Ngenze njani ngaye nazo zonke ezinye izingane?
Ukuthandana ngenhliziyo kunye nobungane obuqhubekayo
Ngakube mina nomnyeni wami sibunqamule ubungani nenye i-couple ngenxa yokuthi nje lendoda nami sivese sangena ekuthandaneni ngokwenhliziyo kuphela ? Sekwadlula manje,futhi nowakwami nonkosikazi walendoda bathatha isinqumo esiqinile , esigcwele umoya wokubuyisana kuyo yonke lento eyenzeka.Ngazizathu thizeni ,sesamisa nokuhlanganyela ndawonye okwesikhashana.Ngisho ngokwethembeka nje ,sekube yingxenye le ebe ngenzima kulo lonke loludaba.Kungukulahlekelwa…
Inkambo enhle yobukhrest iqhathaniswa nengcindezi yezocansi
Ngakube ukuziphatha kahle ngokwezocansi ngokobuKhrestu akunampilo futhi akukho oemvelweni? Ngingowesifazane ozama ukuphila impilo emsulwa ,kodwa owesilisa engingena naye othandweni uhlala njalo engicindezela.Uthi umuzwa wami ngobumsulwa kwezocansi kungumuzwa nje ongenampilo wokwesaba –ngokuthi ngokuzama ukugculisa uNkulunkulu ,ngilahala ubuhle bemvelo nezinjabulo zokuphila njengokokuba uNkulunkulu wazidala .Ngiya ngokuya ngikuthola kunzima ukumphendula uma ekhuluma ngalendlela.Ningangipha…
Ingane izibuza ukuthi engabe izilwane ziyaya yini ezulwini
Ngakube izilwane zami o-doggy doggy bayoya nami eZulwini? Ngiphatheke kabi ngoba inja yami isandanakufa .Sesibe naleyonja ekhaya ,kusuka ngazalwa ,manje angiyiboni impilo eyoba mnandi lo -doggy doggy engekho .Ngike ngabuza uMawami ukuthi soyibona yini eZulwini ,uvese wathi angiyobuza uthisha wami kasontoskole,ovese wathi yena ,cha iZulu elabantu akulona elezilwane.lokho kungiphathe kabi.Nicabanga…
-DELETED- Abazali bakhathazekile nge-homework eningi
Ngenze njani uma ingane yami esafunda e-primary ine- homework eningi kakhulu ,okugcina kwehlisa nesikhathi sokuba ndawonye siwmundeni? Njalo ntambama uba namahora amaningi awasebenzisa enza ama-assignment. Ngokokubuka kwami kwamanje akathathi kancane ekuqedeni emsebenzini. Yingoba muningi kakhulu umsebenzi wakhe. Ngakube wonke lama –homework amangaka adingekile ekufundeni nasekuthuthukeni kwempilo yengane esakhula?
Ukubuka ngokwebhayibheli ukuzikhipha ekwakheni nabantu
Nicabangani ngamaKhrestu athatha inqubo yokuzikhipha kubantu ayokwakha wodwana?Adayise imizi yawo ,ayokwakha ehlane wodwa ezintabeni,alayishe ukudla ,ayozitshalela izitshalo zawo ,ayophila njengabasunguli bese elwela ngawo wonke amandla ukuzimela kwinqubo yokuphila yomhlaba? Baninganyana abantu engibaziyo asebethathe lendlela.Angibaphikisi ngokuphelele ekugcineni,ngikholwa sonke singangcono uma singathi ukuzihlubula ubuntofontofo bobumnandi bempucuko bese sifunda ukuphila ngendlela elula nje…
Ukubuka ngeso le-bhayibheli ukungena komkhrestu kwi-fine arts
Ngokokubuka kwebhayibheli ikhona indawo evumelanayo ne-Arts kulona, kumbe yintshisekelo nje yabantu bezomhlaba ? Singabona kanjani i-art enhle nembi? Indodakazi yethu ,ingumfundi we-art e university ,manje sinokukhathazekela ukuthi imosha nje amandla nesikhathi sayo.Ikakhulukazi sikhathazeke kakhulu ngengxenye yezokuziphatha kulokhu ekwenzayo-iclass lakhe elingokudweba izithombe zasekuphileni limdinga adwebe abantu abanqunu benotho abalwenzayo! Ninomuzwa onjani…
Ukulawula ukudinwa kuma-teenager
Ngingamsiza kanjani undodana wami oseyi-adoloscent ukuba abhekane nokudinwa kwakhe? Kulula ukuphawula ukuthi uthukuthele kakhulu ngokuthizeni,kodwa nginomuzwa oqinile wokuthi ,uyayivalela ayicindezele imizwa yakhe yenhliziyo.Ngizamile ngebengingakwenza,ngehluleka ukumenza akhulume ngayo. Ngenze njani?
Uthole ukuthi uwakwakho ube neshende - (Part 2 of 2)
Ngisanda kuthola ukuthi uwakwami ubengi – shendeza. Njengokuba nani ningazicabangela, kungikhungathe kanjani ukuthola lezondaba zokungethenbeki kwakhe, namanje angikasanguluki ekuthukeni. Angikamqondi okwamanje, futhi angikazi ngenze njani. ningangipha indlela?
Uthole ukuthi uwakwakho ube neshende - (Part 1 of 2)
Ngisanda kuthola ukuthi uwakwami ubene shende .Njengokuba nani ningazicabangela ,kungikhungathekise kanjani ukuthola lezondaba zokungethenbeki kwakhe ,namanje angikasanguluki ekuthukeni. Angikamqondi okwamanje ,futhi angikazi ngenze njani .Ningangipha indlela ?
Ukungqubuzana kukaBaba nondodakazi
Ngingakuletha kanjani ukuzwana phakathi kwe- teenager yethu nomnyeni wami? Njalo uma uyise emlanda esikoleni kuba ngukuthi uqala impi naye kumbe amnike inkulumo ende ukumtshela ukuthi wehluleka kangakanani ezifundweni zakhe.Bese undodakazi akhulume kimi ediniwe kumbe ekhala .Amabanga esikole asehlale eyinkinga kundodakazi wethu, futhi ngiyaqonda ukuthi simelwe ukwenza konke esingakwenza ukumgcina ekhaliphile…
Ukubhekana nentsha engamavila
Ngingawagqugquzela kanjani ama teenager ami amabili angamavila?Awakwazi nokungisiza ngomsebenzi wasendlini, futhi bayaziba kuze kube ngumzuzu wokugcina kuyila enza umsebenzi wawo wesikole. Njengomzali ongayedwana angibi nawo amandla okubafaka ngempoqo emsebenzini.Ikhona yini indlela yokunqamula lenqubo kubona?
Okumele ukucabange phambi kokuqhelelana
Ningakukhuthaza ukuqhelelana emshadweni ozizwa usufike kwangqingetshe? Iminyaka eminingi umshado wethu ubhekene nesifo esiqhubekayo sokulimala ekujuleni.Ngaphansi kwalesisimo, ngizibuza engabe kungcono yini ukuqhelelana okwesikhashana. Ngakolunye uhlangothi ngikhathazeke ngezingane zethu. Nicabanga senze njani?
Ingane ehlale iqaphile kweqe
Ngakube simelwe ukukhathazeka ngengane esabayo ukuthatha ama risk kweqe? Umnyeni wami ucabanga simelwe ukuqinisa isandla impela -iphoqwe ukubhekana nesimo sokwesaba kwayo.Mina nginomuzwa imelwe ukunikwa ithuba ize ibe nokuzethemba ngokwayo. Nibona ndlelani ?
Ingane enovalo ngokuba yodwa
Singabhekana kanjani nomuzwa wovalo olukhulu kwindodana yethu eno 8 weminyaka ukusala yodwa? Ilala ekamerweni elilodwa nodadewabo ngoba yesaba ukulala yodwa .Ngeke umthole edlala yedwa ekamerweni lakhe ngaphandle uma kunomuntu khona .Esikhathini esiphambilini wake wazama ukuba yedwa ,wayevevezela [ejuluka ehefuzela ] .Uhlakaniphe kakhulu ,wenza kahle esikoleni impela ,udlala nekeyboard namadrum nezemidlalo…