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#TheFixer: My baby mama’s boyfriend and I don’t see eye to eye”

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Every Wednesday we have a feature called #TheFixer where we help a listener through whatever they are going through 'one drive at a time'

Tumelo shares that she has been dating the 'love of her life' for a little over a year and everything in their relationship has been smooth sailing until recently. Her boyfriend's baby mama, who is the mother to his five-year-old daughter, seems to not be a fan of hers.

According to Tumelo, whenever the baby mama who co-parents with her boyfriend comes over to drop off her daughter for his time with her, she hardly ever acknowledges Tumelo in the room.

This incident has really hurt Tumelo and now she wants to know how to approach her dilemma. Should she bring up the matter with her boyfriend or address the baby mama directly?

Listen to the full podcast to hear what Tumelo had to say
18 Nov 2020 English South Africa Society & Culture · Personal Journals

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