Playing the game of love

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Stacey & JSbu speak about the scariest four-letter word in any relationship... love. We asked KZN how old they were when they received their first declaration of love and how they reacted to it.

Saying I love you to someone for the first time can be an emotional minefield. Whether it's an unwanted declaration or if you're the first to say it, expect a tornado of emotions to overtake you. Imagine being a teen and giving your first crush your undying devotion and eternal love, for them only to turn around and reject it. Cue first heartbreak and devastation. It's a weird thought to think you might have had a hand in breaking someone's heart by rejecting their "I love you" without even realising it.
9 Jun 2020 English South Africa Society & Culture · Personal Journals

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