#AmIADouche: 'My ex’s new boyfriend is not allowed to visit her in my flat'

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Ryan sent us the following message:

"Hi Stacey And The Team. I’m Going To Get Right Into It. My Ex And I Broke Up About Nine Months Ago. But We Still Live Together Cause Of Our Lease And She Didn’t Have A Job For A While So It Made Sense. However, I Am The One Who Pays For The Rent. We Have Both Started Seeing Other People And I Bring My Girlfriend Over From Time To Time But I Have Banned Her New Boyfriend From Coming Over Cause He Is So Annoying And I Am The One Paying The Bills. She Thinks I Am Being Douche But I Think As Long As I’m Paying I Make The Rules. Am I A Douche For Not Allowing My Ex’s New Boyfriend To Visit Her In The Flat? Ryan In Durban."

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15 Oct 2019 English South Africa Society & Culture · Personal Journals

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