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A listener from Queensburgh shared that he went snooping on his partner's phone and found flirtatious messages.

He asked whether to confront her and risk exposing himself or stay quiet. Stacey and J Sbu opened it up to listeners and the calls and voice notes came flooding in.

While some asked him why he went looking, others told him to take some pointers from the flirtatious messages

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4 Jun English South Africa Society & Culture · Personal Journals

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