You Can’t Build Real Intimacy on a Foundation of Performance

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You can’t build real intimacy on a foundation of performance.
If you’re constantly:
- editing yourself
- holding back
- trying to be more “likable”
Then the connection isn’t fully real.
The right person doesn’t need a perfect version of you.
They connect with the real one.
7 May 5AM English South Africa Music Commentary · Society & Culture

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