How our attachment style predicts who we choose as romantic partners

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Attachment theory gives us so many insights into our humanity, how we relate to one another and who we choose to love. Everyone always wants to know, why do we choose certain partners over others? In this episode I unpack the different adult attachment styles and discuss how we might choose certain partners based on your attachment style.

7 Dec 2021 English Explicit South Africa Self-Improvement · Relationships

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