"She wants him to pay for what?!" - Stacey & J Sbu

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There will always be a debate over whether men should cover the bill on a date, which is considered chivalrous, or if women, wanting to be seen as equals, want to split the bill.

But there are clearly some people who are willing to push the limits on a romantic date, hoping to see exactly what they can get out of you.

It's one thing expecting a man to pay for dinner but if you do believe that the guy has to pay, at least on the first date, how much of the date must he cover?

One man was shocked when his date decided to really push her luck.
25 Oct 2021 English South Africa Society & Culture · Personal Journals

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