"I am not dating with the intent to marry, I am dating to accumulate wealth" - KZN Listener

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When the endgame is marriage, there could be some serious implications within the relationship.

Are you settling for someone because you are afraid of being alone?

Are you putting up with behaviours, habits, and other things from your partner that you otherwise would not because you are thinking about the future?

Should we all just be dating for fun and if marriage happens then great, and if it doesn't, it doesn't?

Today Stacey and J Sbu are getting deep into the relationship mindset and they wanted to ask KZN all about dating and marriage.

One listener, Tumi, woke up and chose violence this morning
19 Oct 2021 English South Africa Society & Culture · Personal Journals

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