"She is under him so she has to do what her husband wants" - KZN Listener

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Hlengiwe has been married to her husband for 10 years and she thought they were content in their relationship until he said he want a polygamous marriage.

Hlengiwe decided to share her story with Stacey and J Sbu because she is in desperate need of advice. Listener Andile came through with some "advice" that did not sit right with Stacey, Buhle and J Sbu.
13 Oct 2021 English South Africa Society & Culture · Personal Journals

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