"He didn't have the guts to stand up to his parents!" - J Sbu

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Stacey and J Sbu received the following voice note from KZN listener Mahesh who is in a dilemma.

According to Brides.com, it is estimated that almost half of the marriages worldwide are arranged. An arranged marriage is a marital union planned by the families, typically parents, of the couple.

KZN listener, Mahesh who is a newlywed sent in his story to Stacey and J Sbu for the feature called: #TheFixer. Mahesh has just come to the emotionally devastating resolution that he wants out of the marriage that was initiated by both his parents and his in-laws.

Find out what advice Stacey, J Sbu and KZN had to offer.
28 Apr 2021 English South Africa Society & Culture · Personal Journals

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