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Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Ukunamathela ngenhliziyo komunye oseceleni kanye nokuholela kwi-sahlukaniso
Ngakube uthando lwangasese oluncike kwimizwa yenhliziyo kuphela uma lude luphindeka ,ibhayibheli liyakuvumela ukuba uhlukanise ngenxa yalo? Ngezindlela eziningi umkhwenyana unamathele ngothando lwenhliziyo kwabanye abesifazane lokho osekulethe ufa emshadweni wethu .Okuse fresh nje okubandakanya intokazi ubesondelene nayo kakhulu ngenhliziyo .Ngikhathele ukulokhu ephika ,nanxa sesibe kwi counseling amahlandla amaningi ,alukho uphawu engilubona…
Ukubhekana nentsha engamavila
Ngingawagqugquzela kanjani ama teenager ami amabili angamavila?Awakwazi nokungisiza ngomsebenzi wasendlini, futhi bayaziba kuze kube ngumzuzu wokugcina kuyila enza umsebenzi wawo wesikole. Njengomzali ongayedwana angibi nawo amandla okubafaka ngempoqo emsebenzini.Ikhona yini indlela yokunqamula lenqubo kubona?
Ukulawula inzalo nokubuka okungokufa
Ngakube kukhona ukuxhumana phakathi kokulawula inzalo nokuhushula? Mina nonkosikazi wami siyathanda ukuba nomndeni lusuku lumbe, kodwa ngezizathu ezithile, sibona asikakulungeli lokho okwamanje. Kuleminyaka emibili sishadile sibufunile ubuso beNkosi ngenkombandlela futhi asizange sibe nokungabaza ngesinqumo sethu sokuthi ukuqhubela phambili kancane ukuletha izingane, ngokuthi sikwenze lokho ngendlela yokulawula inzalo okwamanje sisebasha emshadweni…
Okumele ukucabange phambi kokuqhelelana
Ningakukhuthaza ukuqhelelana emshadweni ozizwa usufike kwangqingetshe? Iminyaka eminingi umshado wethu ubhekene nesifo esiqhubekayo sokulimala ekujuleni.Ngaphansi kwalesisimo , ngizibuza engabe kungcono yini ukuqhelelana okwesikhashana.Ngakolunye uhlangothi ngikhathazeke ngezingane zethu .Nicabanga senze njani?
Ongumkhrestu ongena othandweni nongakholwa
Ngakube ku-right yini ukungena othandweni nowesilisa ongangeni sanhlobo kwezakwaKhrestu? Ezinyangeni ezingu 6 ezedlule wafaka isicelo sothando kimi ,nanxa ngalesosikhathi ngabona kungumqondo ongemuhle ,kodwa ngasemukela.Manje inhliziyo yami isithe neh kuyena futhi angazi ngenzenjani .Ngisothandweni kuye ngokujulile,kuphela uma engazinikela kuJesu ,ngale kwalokho ngizizwa kunzima ukuthi siqhubeke nokungena emshadweni naye .Khona lapho futhi…
Ingane ehlale iqaphile kweqe
Ngakube simelwe ukukhathazeka ngengane esabayo ukuthatha ama risk kweqe? Umnyeni wami ucabanga simelwe ukuqinisa isandla impela -iphoqwe ukubhekana nesimo sokwesaba kwayo.Mina nginomuzwa imelwe ukunikwa ithuba ize ibe nokuzethemba ngokwayo. Nibona ndlelani ?
Ukwenza i-valentine’s day ibe-positive ezinganeni
Ningangisiza ngomqondo onempilo ukusiza izingane zami zigubhe ngendlela i-valentine? Ngangivamise ukuwuthanda u-14 February ngiseyingane ,ngithanda nezingane zami zibe nalowomuzwa .Kodwa angifuni ukufaka umqondo ongesiwo wothando .Yikuphi eningakuphakamisa?
Ingane enovalo ngokuba yodwa
Singabhekana kanjani nomuzwa wovalo olukhulu kwindodana yethu eno 8 weminyaka ukusala yodwa? Ilala ekamerweni elilodwa nodadewabo ngoba yesaba ukulala yodwa .Ngeke umthole edlala yedwa ekamerweni lakhe ngaphandle uma kunomuntu khona .Esikhathini esiphambilini wake wazama ukuba yedwa ,wayevevezela [ejuluka ehefuzela ] .Uhlakaniphe kakhulu ,wenza kahle esikoleni impela ,udlala nekeyboard namadrum nezemidlalo…
Ingane enomoya ongemuhle
Yikuphi esingakwenza ukuthuthukisa umoya wokubuka impilo ngendlela enhle kundodana wethu? Uhlala ekhalaza ngayo yonke into futhi kuyathukela ebukeka ethokozile.Lomoya wakhe ongemuhle usuphazamise nomsebenzi wakhe wesikole ,futhi ngiqinisekile ukuthi umphazamise ngisho nokuxhumana nabangani.
Ukufundisa izingane ngokuzidela
Ngakube kumele ngizifundise izingane zami ngobumqoka bokuzidela? Asizwa kakhulu ngakho ebandleni kulezinsuku ,bese kuthi isikompilo labantu basemhlabeni alikugqizi qakala sanhlobo.Kodwa anginaso isiqinisekiso ukuthi izingane zethu zizoqonda ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukulandela uJesu uma silahla lengxenye yobizo lomfundi kaJesu.
Izimpawu zobungozi be –social media kuma –couple ashadile
Ningangipha inkombandlela ukuthi okungakanani ukuxhumana kwi - social media okufanele kumuntu oshadile uma bubandakanya umuntu wobunye ubulili? Ngakube zikhona izimpawu eziphayizayo uma ubudlelwano obu online sebunobungozi ukweqa umugqa wokungafanele?
Ukuhlonipha i-teenager yakho
Ngingalinika kanjani iteenager lami inhlonipho elifanele? Ngingavuma ukuthi siyangqulana ngamakhanda kaningi –uluhlobo oludinga ukuqondiswa nokuholwa okuningi,okuphetha ngokuthi kungabi kuhle endlini .Kodwa angikholwa ngukuthi kukhona engikwenzile okumehlisa isithunzi njengomuntu. Kuchaza ukuthini ukuthi “umzali ahloniphe ingane?” ngakube ngingavese ngimdedele enze ngendlela yakhe –ngilokothe?
Ubuzali emva kwesahlukaniso
Ngingabuletha kanjani ubuzali obunqala uma kungukuthi umndeni wethu uqhekezwe yi –divorce? Ngingumama ongayedwana onendodana eko 4 weminyaka.Uye ahambe ayohlala noyise njalo ngempelaviki ,owangishiya ngikhulelwe yena ,.Uma eke wabuya ekhaya uyakhala akhalele uyise.Lokhu kuyangilimaza ngempela ngoba ngimkhulise ngingedwa ,okwenze kwayimi obhekane nomsebenzi wonke onzima ngisho nokumqondisa.Ngiphinde ngibe nezingane ezimbili komunye wesilisa…
Indodakazi yethu ishada nongakholwa
Njengobaba onguMKhrestu ngakube ngingayibamba ingane yami ngesandla ngiyedlulisele ensizweni engakholwa ngomshado ? Phezu kweminyaka engu 20 sinonkosikazi siyikhulise ngezindlela zikaNkulunkulu.Isinqumo sayo size kithi njengenkulu indumalo lena.Siyayithanda indodakazi yethu ,kodwa kithina lo ngumbuzo wonembeza nokwethembeka emigudwini yebhayibheli . Ngokokucaciswe zibhalo ngokuboshelwa jokeni linye nabangakholwa , ngakube mina ,njengoyise ngiwunike I –support…
Ukulekelela uwakwakho akwazi ukuphatha kahle ezezimali
Ngingamkhuthaza kanjani unkosikazi wami ukuba aqaphele ekusebenziseni imali ? umndeni wethu uthwale kanzima phambilini.Ngalahlekelwa ngumsebenzi iminyaka ewu 2 yonke nokho ekugcineni sengiwutholile umsebenzi o full time . Unkosikazi wami yena ubamba amatoho lapha nalaphayana ,kodwa sinezindleko eziningi kuwo lowo mnyama. Uvese athenge izingubo ezibizayo zakhe nezingane ,ngisho kungathiwa singalala sidlile…
Imilingo kuma-movie nezokuzithokozisa
Nithini ngokuvezwa kobuthakathi ,imilingo nokuloya kuma storybooks ,amafilimu ,nezinhlelo ze TV nezinye izingxenye ze –entertainment ? Kubukeka sengathi izingane zethu zithululelwa wonke lomkhuba ,kungengebe nje kuphela ko -Harry Potter kodwa ngisho nakuma movie ase Afrika ngokuhlukana kwawo .Okwenza izinto zehluke kakhulu ibandla lethu lisanda kwenza inkundla yokuzobuka i-film engemilingo bayibize…
Ongumkhwenyana nobaba onomakhwepheni obulili bunye naye
Ngingazizekela kanjani kodwa izingane zami ezisafunda isikole ukuthi uyise usesishiyile uphululana nenye intshebe ? Ukulahlekelwa ngumnyeni wami sekube ngukukhungatheka kimi ,njengoba nani ningazicabangela ,kodwa manje nginomthwalo ngezingane .Angikazitsheli lutho okwamanje .Kunzima kakhulu ngokwakho ukuzitshela ukuthi uyise uselihuzu ,ngesaba kakhulu ke manje le yokuthi uthathwe enye intshebe enjengaye lokho kovese kulethe…
Ukusiza intombazane eyi-teen ibe ngowesifazane - (Part 2 of 2)
Yikuphi engingakwenza nginomnyeni wami ukukhulisa ingane yethu yentombazane ibe ngowesifazane uNkulunkulu afuna ibe nguyena? Kulomphakathi ogwegwile ngubulili ,sihlale njalo sikhathazekile ukuba ibugcine ubufazane bayo sikhathi sinye ibe ikhula ibe ngoqinile nomuntu omdala onelisekile .Kukhona enikuphakamisayo?
Ukusiza intombazane eyi-teen ibe ngowesifazane - (Part 1 of 2)
Yikuphi engingakwenza nginomnyeni wami ukukhulisa ingane yethu yentombazane ibe ngowesifazane uNkulunkulu afuna ibe nguyena? Kulomphakathi ogwegwile ngubulili ,sihlale njalo sikhathazekile ukuba abugcine ubufazane bakhe sikhathi sinye ebe ekhula abe ngoqinile nomuntu omdala onelisekile .Kukhona enikuphakamisayo?
Ukuxoxa ngokudideka kobulili nentsha
Ngingenza kanjani mina nomnyeni wami ukusondela kundodana nondodakazi bethu abasebasha njengokuba bebhekene nezimo zokudideka kobulili e -high school yabo? Ungeke ukukholwe ukuthi udaba olunje seluqhumbukile lwavela ekukhanyeni ngonyaka odlule .Omunye okulona ngomunye ongumngane omkhulu wendodakazi yami ,okuyimanje oziphathisa okomfana nofuna ukuphathwa kanjalo.Izingane zami zizama ukungayinaki yonke lendaba uma ubuka ukude,kodwa…