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Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Osekuthombeni ucabanga ukuthi abamhloniphi abazali bakhe
Kumele i-adoloscent iphendule kanjani uma abazali bayo behlale becabanga ukuthi kukhona ebaleka nakho? Sengenele abazali bami ! Angiyona ingane embi ,kodwa abanginiki indawo yami sanhlobo.Angikwazi ukwenza utho kumbe ngiye endaweni ethile ngaphandle kokuphekisiswa ngemibuzo.Ngingawamela kanjani amalungelo ami nenkululeko yami ngaphandle kokuba ngiphume ekhaya?
Ukwenza izikhathi zokudla zomndeni ezithokozelekayo
Njengowesilisa nicabanga ukuthi kuchaza ukuthi ngiyinkonkoni ngoba nakhu njalo ngiye ngixolele imvamisa futhi ngithokozele izinto zabesifazane ? Yilokhu ngaba njena ngisengumfana omncane ,anginaso isiqiniseko ngithini ngalokhu.
Ukukhonza izinto zabesifazane kunye nokuzazi ukuba ngowesilisa
Njengowesilisa nicabanga ukuthi kuchaza ukuthi ngiyinkonkoni ngoba nakhu njalo ngiye ngixolele imvamisa futhi ngithokozele izinto zabesifazane ? Yilokhu ngaba njena ngisengumfana omncane ,anginaso isiqiniseko ngithini ngalokhu.
Ukukhulisa ukuzethemba ezinganeni
Yiziphi ezinye izinto engingazenza ukudala ukuzethemba ezinganeni zami ? Angifuni zikhule zicabanga ukuthi umhlaba umi ngazo ,kodwa futhi ngifuna ukuzifaka umqondo wokuzihlonipha kunye nezinkambiso zabo ezinhle njengabantu.Ngingakwenza kanjani lokho?
Ubuzali ngokubambisana nokungabambisaneki naye owake waganana naye
Ngibhekana kanjani ngokunqubuzana komqondo ngendlela akhulisa ngayo engangimganile? Isinqumo sesahlukaniso sethu ,sasithi siyoba neqhaza elilinganayo ebuzalini.Lokho kwakuzwakala kahle ephepheni kodwa ekwenzekeni kuyinhlekelele.Ngingumuntu okholelwa ebuqothweni nasekuqondiseni.Kodwa ngeshwa konke lokho kuyashabala uma nje izingane zami zike zaya kuyena,ongenandaba ngemithetho nezinqubo.Ngenze njani?
Ingane okubukeka ilala kweqe
Ngakube ngikhathazeke ngengane yami eno 6 weminyaka elala kakhulu ?Ayifuni ukuvuka ekuseni ,phezu kokuba ilala early bese ilale ubusuku bonke? Kuyinto ejwayelekile lokhu ? Kukhona enikuphakamisayo?
Ingane kumbe i-teenager iphazanyiswa zithombe zobunqunu
Ngakube ngisengabuyela yini endlini kababa ,emva kokuba ngibone izithombe zabesifazane abanqunu kuma-magzine ongcolile awukhohlwe uvulekile e-seating room ? Lokhu kungiphathe kabi kakhulu.Abazali bami sebahlukanisa kodwa nginobudlelwane obunamathele kakhulu kubaba ,cishe wonke ama-weekend ngiwasebenzisa ngikuyena ,angisacabangi ukubuyela khona manje. Ngibhekane kanjani nalesisimo
Ingane Esekuthomeni Enamahloni Nobunyube
Ngenze njani uma ngisabela ukuthi sengathi undodana wami uzibeka eceleni kwabanye kweqe?Kade esesemncane sasithi yisigaba nje ,nokuthi uma esekhula uzosondela kontangayakhe.Kuze kube yimanje lokho akuzange kwenzeke.Akabukeki efuna ukuxhumana noma yimuphi umngani osemnyakeni yakhe ngisho nabantu abadala uqhelile kubona .Isikhathi esiningi uyedwa ,azihlalele ne TV kumbe ama video game .Yini le…
Ukugcina Ubudlelwano Nezingane Emva Kwe-Divosi
Njengokuba sengidivosiwe ngingahlala kanjani ngixhumene nezingane zami ?Okunye kwezinto ezibuhlungu ukuthi ngikalelwe isikhathi sokuba nazo .Ngokomthetho ngivunyelwe izinsuku ezimbalwa ukuba nezingane zami.Ngingathanda ukuba nesikhathi esithe xaxa nazo kodwa lo owayengunkosikazi wami u-strict kakhulu ngesikhathi engiba nazo ngaso aze atolike umthetho ngendlela yakhe.Ezimweni ezinjena ngingenza kanjani ukuthi ngiqhubeke ngibe nomthelela onobuNkulunkulu…
Ozongena Ekubeni Ngubaba Ukhathazekile Ngezindleko Neresponsibility
Silungiselela kanjani siphinde silawule izindleko zokuba nengane ? Mina nonkosikazi wami sasijabule siyandiza ukuthola ukuthi usemumethe ,kodwa manje sesibhekene nesimo ngqo esiza nakho.Ngizizwa nginokukhathazeka nokwesaba mayelana nezinselelo zoku-supporter nokunakekela ingane .Ningangisiza?
Friend Request Kwi Social Media Evela Othandweni Lwakudala
Ngingayimukela yini –ifacebook friend request kwesengake ngathandana naye phambilini? Usekhombise ukuba nokuthanda sixhumane kwi social media.Njengamanje luphezulu luhle uthando lwami nomnyeni wami futhi ngizinikele kuyena ,ngakho angicabangi ukuthi lokhu kungadala ubungozi ebudlelwaneni bomshado wethu .Nicabangani?
Ukusungula Izindlela ezihlabela phambili zokuxhumana nezingane
Singabafundisa kanjani abantwana bethu ubuciko bokulalela? Babukeka behluleka ukulandela ulayelo .Odabeni lwendodakazi yami ngicabanga iyaziba izikhathi eziningi.Okukandodana wami khona ,ubukeka eziqinisa ezakhe izindlebe bese abe matasa nomabonakude,izincwadi nama video game,noma yini enye ayenzayo okwenza engasuseki kuyo.Ngizithola sengide ngiphinda phinda into eyodwa.Zikhona iziluleko eningangipha zona?
Unkosikazi Ongasenkamunkamu KuMkhwenyana OsewuTamu-texe
Ngenzenjani ukubhekana noqobo lokulahlekelwa ukulangazelela komnyeni wami ngomzimba wakhe osuvese waba yisitetelegu ? Sengizamile ukuba ngonenkuthazo nokusiqonda isimo.Ngizamile ukushintsha ibhodwe sehlise okukhuluphalisayo ,ngazinikela ukujima naye,ngazama nokumlalela ngozwelo eminyakeni eminingi eyedlule ,kodwa alukho nolulodwa yena alwenzile ukuguqula isimo sakhe .Angicabangi ukuthi kunengcindezi anayo ,yena nje kuphela akufunayo ukuzimolokohlela ukudla qede athi…
Ubaba Ongaziphethe Kahle KuMalokazana Nakwabanye Besifazane
Ngibhekane kanjani nokungaziphathi kahle kukababa kumakoti wami nabanye besifazane abasebasha?Sengidlulisile ukukhathazeka kwami kuyena ,kodwa uvese athi yindlela lena ayiyona futhi akukho kuguquka azokwenza yena.Nginqume ukuthi kuzoba kuhle ukuba singabe sisaba ndawonye naye kusukela manje,kodwa lokho kukhuba uMawam ngoba usathokozela ukusibona .Umakoti wami uthi ukulungele ukuzinikela abekezelele lempatho kababa,kodwa mina angithandi…
Ukuchazela Izingane I-Addicton Yezithombe Zobunqunu
Ikhona yini indlela enhle yokuxoxa mayelana noqukatho olungeluhle kowakwakho kwezocansi? Umnyeni wami usohambweni oluhle lokulapheka kulesisimo futhi uyethembisa kakhulu.Umshado wethu futhi uqinile kunanaphambilini ,kodwa izingane zethu seziqale ukubuza imibuzo mayelana nayo yonke imihlangano esimatasa siya kuyo.Angazi kumele ngiphendule ngithini.
Ubaba Owadivosa Ingane Ayimthandi Umamncane - Divorced Dad
Ngingenza kanjani enganeni yami ukuba engabi nyamana mbana uMamncane wayo omusha? Ngingubaba womfana omuhle kabi ono 6.UMawakhe wangidivosa lomfana wami eneminyaka eko 3 ,emva kwalokho wahamba wayoshada nenye indoda.Okwamanje nguye onelungelo elikhulu lengane, elami elokuyivakashela.Undodana akafuni ngibe ngowakhe nabanye abantu,futhi lokhu sekudale inkinga enkulu kimina ngempilo yokuphila nabanye abantu.Kwaze kwabiza…
Ingane Ethi Ifuna Ukufa
Ngakube kumele yini ngethuke uma undodana wami oneminyaka engu 6 athi ufisa sengathi engabe usefile?Lenkulumo uyisho kimi namhlanje ,lapho ngivese ngathuka ngenye indlela ngavese ngangazi ngithini kuyena.Ngenzenjani?
Izimo Zengcindezi Yokukhathazeka
Ngingumkhathazeki ,futhi lenkinga iyadlanga.Sengike ngezwa abantu bekhuluma ngoguquguquko lokukhathazeka oluzishintsha imibala,kodwa angazi lokho kuchazani.Ngingabona kanjani ukuthi ukukhathazeka kwami kungokujwayelekile ? Nokuthi ngenzenjani?
Ukuzibuza ngonakekelo lukaNkulunkulu
Singathembela kuNKULUNKULU ezidingweni eziphathekayo kubantwana bakhe abathembekile? kwabaseFiliphu 4:19 kubukeka ethembisa kanjalo .Selokhu ngalahlekelwa ngumsebenzi nganamathela kulelivesi,kodwa alibukeki lingisize ngantoni nomndeni wami. Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezedlule silahlekelwe umuzi wethu,imoto nezinto eziningi .Kube nzima kakhulu lokhu kodwa okweqile imibuzo okunginike yona engqondweni.Ngibonile ukuthi amaKhrestu amaningi athembekile endulo aphila nanxa izidingo zawo zingafezekile.Anqubuzana…
Indodakazi Engena Ebuntonjini Enokujwayelana Nowesilisa Osemdala
Sivume yini ukubona undodakazi wethu ona 16 abe seduze nowesilisa osekhulile kunaye .Uneminyaka engu 25 futhi u-involve kakhulu kwi band yama worshiper ebandleni lethu .Kusukela nyakenye yena lowesilisa usebe nobudlelwano obungaqondakali kahle nondodakazi wami ababubiza ngo ‘brother –sister’.Ungowesilisa othandekayo futhi ohlonishwayo ebandleni lethu ,kodwa ngezizathu ezithile umqondo kaMawami wokusola into…