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Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Imi kuphi i-Focus on the Family ngomshado nesahlukaniso
Abaningi abakholwayo nabangakholwayo babuza umbuzo omkhulu othi : Kungani kumele ushade? Ikuphi nje ngempela inkinga ngesahlukaniso nokuthi kungani kumele uthembeke kumuntu oyedwa impilo yakho yonke? I-Focus on the Family ihlale njalo ivikela umshado nsukuzasa.
Izinsika zezibhalo zokuvikela ukuphila koluntu
Ngokokuqhumbuka kokuhushula izisu kwaba semthethweni, kwaqhumisa isikhalo kubameli bobuKhrestu bezinhlaka ezilwela ukuphila.I-Focus on the Family ingenye yezinhlangano esilwe iminyaka ngalesihloko yaze yetha igama elithi : “ubungcwele bempilo yomuntu” yikho okungumgogodla kwi-ministry. Ukuze aMaKhrestu aqonde ukulwela izinto ezinjalo ,adinga ukwazi ukuthi ibhayibheli lifundisani ngempilo yoluntu.
Ukulungisela ukukhishwa ejele kowakwakho
Kwesinye isikhathi empilweni sibhekana nezinselelo esingacabanganga soke sidibane nazo. Ake ucabange nje ukungamboni uwakwakho ngenxa yokuboshwa,qede bese uyezwa ukuthi usuku lokuphuma kwakhe selusondele. Emva kweminyaka, ubudlelwano bungobungekho, manje sekumele ulungisele lesigaba esisha.
Ukwehliswa isithunzi uwakwakho kubantu
Kuwumthetho onqala ukuba uwakwakho akwazise emphakathini, angakubukeli phansi. Lenkulumo ingezwakala ilula nje, kodwa kaningi konokwenzeka oganene naye angaqapheli izincaphephe ngezinhlamvu azishoyo, yikho-ke ukuxoxa ngokukhululeka kusemqoka.
Imingcele emshadweni evikela ukusiza owobunye ubulili
Angeke walokotha ukuthathe kancane ukuklama umngcele emshadweni wakho. Ubudlelwano emishadweni eminingi sebube nduvunduvu ngenxa yokungakali imingcele ecacile, yagcina ingena esonweni. Ngakube indoda eshadile ingasiza owesifazane oshadile ngezinkinga zakhe zomshado bebobabili?
Ukubhekana nobungane bokunganaki
Ukuba nengane eqhubeka njalo ngobudedengu kungaba ezinye zezinto eziqhumisa ikhanda kumzali. Buwumqansa ngokwabo ubuzali sesiyishiya ke eyokuba nengane ebudedengu.
Uwakwami uhlukumeza izingane ngokomzimba
Izinkomba ezibikiwe ezweni lethu ngohlukumezo lwezingane luphansi uma kuqhathaniswa nobuqiniso bezibalo, lokho kungenxa yezizathu thizeni. Okokuqala, kungenxa yokwesaba okwengama izisulu uma zitshela umuntu okwenzekayo, ngeshwa kubandakanya, nomoya wokwamukela ukujezisa ngenduku kweqe nokunukubezwa ngokocansi, kungokunye kwakho osekwemukelekile emphakathini.
Ukuphila nowakwakho onengcindezi yehaba-kucabanga
Kuye kuzwakale umuntu ekhuluma ngehaba-kucabanga, phecelezi ‘Obsessive Compulsive Disorder [OCD ]’, okusuke umuntu esekulona. Manje wenzenjani ngempela nxa uganene nomuntu okulesisimo ?
Uwushiya kanjani umsebenzi e-office bese uba ngosemndenini
Izimfuno zemsebenzi edla isikhathi kanye nesindayo zinkulu, bese kuphenduka inselelo ukuthola isikhathi sakho nomndeni okuyinto esemqoka Esikhathini sethu esigijimayo, nala khona i-technology isigcina simatasa nangeminwe yethu sihlala sikwezokuxhumana, kubiza ukukuqonda ngqo ukwenza isikhathi nomndeni ikakhulukazi la khona ukudinga.
UMusa, umthetho, nokukhuluma iqiniso ngothando
Uma ungumzalwane okholwa yibhayibheli futhi uyishesekela iNkosi Ukhathazekile ukubona lokho uNkulunkulu afuna ukukugcwalisa kwabanye, mawunjalo awuwedwa. Indlela oza ngayo kubantu abaseduze nawe kumele ukwenze ngobuyoninco nokuqaphela. Sesikushilo lokho ,kuncika ekutheni abantu bakuphi nohambo lwabo ekukholweni ,abayikuhlala njalo bevutha ngokokuthi yikuphi okungenziwa nokungenakwenziwa ngeBhayibheli.
Ukuhlonza izimpawu zokugxila ophuzweni kothandiweyo wakho
Sewake wacabanga ukuthi umuntu omthandayo unezinkinga zokugigeka ophuzweni? Kuningi okuyizimpawu zokucwila kulo.
Ucansi kwezokuxhumana ,ukuthandana online,ukuphinga Nesehlukaniso
Umshado usengozini enkulu kakhulu kunakuqala ngokwesabisayo ,njengoba kude kuqhubeka ukulethwa kwezocansi ngezokuxhumana ,nakweminye iminxa e-online engocansi nemibhalo engcolile. Ngakho baningi abantu abangena emgogeni yezocansi online ngaphandle kokuqonda ubu-serious bokwenza lokho
Izingungquko ezenzeka ekungeneni ekuthombeni nasebubhungwini
Ezinye zezingungquko ezizokwenzeka ezinkulu emzimbeni nasemizweni yenhliziyo yengane yakho zizokwenzeka nxa iqeda ukuthomba. Kuba yisikhathi lesi esingaqondakali kumzali ukuthi yikuphi ukuziphatha okwemukelekile nokusuka kukusha kwethusa
Umsebenzi owufundele, ubizo, nomsebenzi unguMKhrestu
Kuvamisa ukuba impilo noNkulunkulu ibe ngengemnandi uma impilo yakho yansuku zonke inesibhocobhoco. AmaKhrestu avamisa ukuzibuza anamava amangakanani embusweni ka Nkulunkulu, ngesikhathi emsebenzela esezwa nemisebenzi eyifundele ingasemnandi.
Ozoba ngumkhwenyana useke waba socansini phambi komshado
Uma ababili benquma ukushada ,akumele kube nemfihlo phakathi emshadweni wabo engabaqumba phansi.Wenze njani uma ukhethe ukuba msulwa phambi komshado kodwa kufumaniseke ukuthi ozoshada naye akasaphelele?
Amakhrestu nengcebo kanye nombuzo wokunikela ngakho konke
Wayeqonde ukuthini uJesu uma ethi : “Hamba uthengise konke onakho, bese uphe abampofu, uyoba nengcebo ezulwini?” Ngibe nguMkhrestu onyakeni nengxenye owedlule, okwamanje kuseluhambo oluhle kimi lolu.Yebo ngibile nazo izinselelo endleleni yami, nanxa kunjalo iNkosi ingibusisile nebala ngezindlela eziningi. Kodwa ngamhla ngihlangana nomuntu owangikhombisa lelovesi ebhayibhelini laletha ukudideka kimi, ngakube kumele…
Ake uyozicinga njengendlela yokuqondisa izigwegwe
Ukuyozicinga kwengane kunamandla kangakanani? Usana lwethu seluthe klwi manje angazi ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lokuqondisa oluhambisana nesigaba sokukhula.Abahlobo bami bona bakhonze kakhulu ukuthi ingane "ake iyozicinga". Anginaso isiqiniseko ukuthi iyona ndlela engcono le. Kunini la khona "ukuyozicinga" kuyindlela eshaya khona yokuqondisa izigwegwe? Kunini la ingesiyo khona? Umehluko ngingawubona kanjani?
Ucansi olungaphandle kwendawo yalo njengokuzinelisa ngenkonzo emshadweni
Kuthini ukuphawula kwenu ngenkonzo engokuthintana nje ngaphandle? Ngakube yinkonzo eyamukelekile yini kunkosikazi nendoda?
Indoda esebenzisa izithombe zobunqunu ngoba unkosikazi engasayinelisi
Kumele yini indoda ifune ukuzinelisa ngokocansi ngokuthi ibuke izithombe zobunqunu uma kuwukuthi unkosikazi wayo akasazithandi akazinaki, useyahubazela nje? Ngisemshadweni onzima.Kusuka emva nje sashada, umkami akasawunaki sanhlobo umzimba wakhe, futhi yinto anganandaba nayo leyo manje. Angifuni ukumdivoza, kodwa ngisenayo imizwa yenkonzo yekamero. Umqondo muni ongasiza la?
Ukhuluma kanjani nezingane ngobaba ongekho
Ngiyiphendula kanjani imibuzo enzima enganeni yami mayelana nobaba wayo ongekho? Ngahlukana noyise, cishe eminyakeni ewu 8-ngesikhathi esimuncu - futhi akakaze ambone. Kodwa mumva nje usebuza izinto ezinjengokuthi: ‘usamthanda ubaba Mah?’ futhi: “Kungani engasifoneli –akangithandi yini nami?” nokuthi “ngingazama ukumcinga ngelinye ilanga?” Nicabanga ngimphendule ngithini?