Ezomndeni
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Amakhosikazi Aholayo Enkonzweni Yekamero
Ngakube kunempilo yini ukuba omama bahole indlela ekwenzeni uthando emshadweni ?Mina nomnyeni wami siyaluthokozela kakhulu uthando lwethu nenkonzo nokho kunento eyodwa engihlale ngikhathazeke ngayo: Kunezikhathi lakhona ngilangazelela ukuzizwa ngisondele kowakwami,kodwa ngibe nongabazane ukuthi kuhle yini kimi ukuba ngiqale uhambo .Impela ngiye ngizitshele ukuthi okwendoda ukuqala uhambo.Kuthini ukucabanga kwenu?
Ukuhlolela Inzalo Ngesikhathi Somethembiso
Ngakube kuhle yini ukucela intokazi engizoshada nayo ukuba ihlolelwe inzalo phambi kokuba sishade? Anguqondi umoya osukhona esikhathini sanamhlanje osuwumkhuba wokuthanda ukungabi nabantwana, hle hle mina kade ngaqala ukulangazelela ukuba nabantwana ngisho ngingakahleli umshado.
Indodakazi ayimhloniphi umkhwenyana wayo
Ngenze njani ngengane esikhulile ephatha kabi umkhwenyana wayo? Indodakazi yethu igane indoda enomoya omuhle kabi .Kodwa indodakazi yethu iyehluleka ukubonga lobubuhle ,imphatha kabi umkhwenyana ayimhloniphi .Kungiphatha kabi ukuyibona iqhubeka ikwenza konke lokhu phambi kwethu,izingane nabangani .Mina ngifuna ukukhuluma nendodakazi yethu kodwa ubaba wakwami yena ubona sengathi ngizobe sengeqa umngcele.Wonke umndeni…
Ogogo nomkhulu bakhathazeke ngesimo sezempilo ekhaya labazukulu
Ngakube kusesigabeni sami yini ukungenelela uma ngibona ukuthi isimo sempilo asiphephile asinampilo emzini womtanami kubazukulu? Ngiyamthanda undodana wami nomakoti kodwa ngibona sengathi ikhaya labo alinampilo enhle kumzukulu wami oyintombazane onezinyanga ezingu 10.Phansi endlini kungcolile kunolwelwezi olubi lokudla okwasalela ku khaphethe namanabukeni uwafica ebekwe yonke indawo.Ukuvimbela lendodakazi yabo ,bayigcina isemotweni yayo…
Ukuziphatha kabi ngocansi nokusondela ngokwenyama phambi komshado
Uma sekuziwa ekusondalaneni ngokomzimba phambi komshado ,yikuphi la okungamele ngifike khona? Mina nesithembisana naye sithwele kanzima kulengxenye futhi asazi siwudwebe kuphi umugqa.Ningasiza ukucacisa ukuti lisuke liqonde ukuthini ibhayibheli ‘ngokungaziphathi kahle ngokocansi?
Ebuzalini i-quality time iqhathaniswa ne - quantity time
Kulezinsuku esiphila kuzo ekukhuleni kwe-technology, kanjalo nabazali besebenza amahora amade ukondla imindeni yabo, isikhathi nezingane sesiphazamisekile,ngeshwa ucwaningo lukhombisa umthelela ongemuhle, walempilo emndenini uwonkana.Abanye abazali bakholwa ngukuthi uma bengondla kahle imindeni yabo bayithengele izinto ezicelayo, benze okwanele ukuba ngabazali.
Abazali baphikisana ukuletha usizo enganeni esikhulile
Ngakube mina nomnyeni wami siyisize yini indodana yethu esikhulile ikwazi ukubhekana nezinkinga zayo zezimali? Lokhu sekube ngumdonsiswano omkhulu emshadweni wethu.Isizimele kodwa iyehluleka .Uma ngithi mina asiyisize ngosizo oluncane lwezimali ,uyise uthi cha aisyiyeke imelwe ukufunda ubunzima bempilo .Mina ngikhathazekile ngayo.Nicabanga senzenjani?
Umehluko ongukhiye phakathi kowesilisa nowesifazane
Ngaphandle kwengaphandle elibonakalayo ,yini ingempela umehluko oqavile phakathi kowesilisa nowesifazane? Sengibe nokudideka okukhulu ngemiyalezo eshiwoyo ngobulili nangendlela okubizwa khona.Ngikholwa ngukuthi ukhona umehluko ebulilini bobubili odinga ukuchunyiswa ngendlela.Ngakolunye uhlangothi ngiye ngiphelelwe ngamagama uma abangani bami bethi angiwuchaze phela.Ningangisiza?
Ophelelwe yithemba uzizwa eyisehluleki (Part 2 of 2)
Phambilini ohlelweni ezomndeni sasiphendula ukububula komlaleli wethu owayefuna usizo owayezizwa njengesehluleki nawaselahlekelwe yithemba empilweni yakhe. Ukukhala okunjalo kuyithinta ngokujulile inhliziyo yethu futhi siye sifune ukungenelela sisize ngokushesha.
Ophelelwe yithemba uzizwa eyisehluleki (Part 1 fo 2)
Sewake waba sesimweni la kusengathi impilo iyama futhi ithemba liyaphela?Leyomizwa akumele neze ithathwe kalula, kumele futhi ihlaziywe ngoseceleni ongakwazi ukuletha ukubona okwehlukile esimweni.Abantu abazizwa belahlekelwe yithemba, bayinhliziyo yethu la kwa Focus on the Family
Imithetho yokuziphatha ngendlela komndeni oxubile
Sinquma kanjani ukuthi abantu babizwe ngamaphi amagama emndenini wethu omusha oxubile? Umshado wesibili lo kimi nakumnyeni wami ,sobabili sinezingane ezino 3 weminyaka esashada .Lezingane sezizikuleyominyaka.Sezino 6 manje enye ino 7 .Mumva nje indodakazi yakhe isiqale ukungibuza ngo Mah.Ekuzweni kwalowo wesifazane owayagane lomnyeni wami kumphathe kabi lokho.Nathi samchazela, sethuke njengaye,njengokuba lomndeni…
Ukulingwa umthandazo nokuqapha kwamoya
Uma ngithandaza uNkulunkulu ngeke yini angivikele ekulingweni ? Nasi isizathu sokubuza kwami .Nakuba ngingazi ubungozi obungaseduze nomshado wami ngokwempilo yawo ,nokho ngisenovalo ,ukuthi ndlelana thizeni ,ngisengashelelela ngiwele ekuphingeni .Ngisanda kuzwa indoda ivuma ukuthi iwele kulesilingo nanxa ibithembekile emshadweni wayo ,nakuba ibizame kaningi ithandazela ukungaweli esonweni socansi .Lokho kungesabisile.Kungani uNkulunkulu enqabe…
Ukukhetha ozoshada naye
Nginikeni uhla oluphathekayo ekuboneni ongaba ngumkhwenyana .Ngiqapheleni phambi kokuzibophezela ngithi :”I do’?
Isithembu nokuthandwa ngabaningi - indlela yokubuka yezwi
Kungani ngingamukeleki ukuba nomndeni ozisekelo zayo yizwi uma kuwukuthi ngithandana nabaniningi besifazane ? Amadoda anqala ezwini –oAbraham Jakobe,Davide noSolomon –babenamakhosikazi amaningi .Ngokubuka iministry yenu egxilile ezwini ,angiboni lutho olwenza nimelane nezinto ezinjengesithembu nezingodosi .Ngizibona nginguMkhrestu othanda ukuba nezingodosi .Ngithanda abesifazane abathe xaxa ngesibalo impela ,akukho sizathu esingenza singakwazi ukwakha isisekelo…
Ukholo ukungabaza Kuqhathaniswa nokungakholwa
Ukuphi umehluko phakathi ‘kongakholwa ‘ kunye nomuntu onombuzo othembekile ngoNkulunkulu ? Ngiyakholelwa eBhayibhelini ,futhi ngiye ngitshele nabahlobo nomndeni ukuthi uNkulunkulu uyazenza izimangaliso ngisho ukuvusa abafileyo .Nokho,uma sezishuba izinto ,ngikuthola kunzima ukuthemba iNkosi.nakuba ngibatshela abanye ukuthi bangethembela emseni waKhe ,nokho ngibhekana novalo nokwesaba uma kufika izimo ezingihaqayo ezinzima.Ngakube lokho kuchaza ukuthi…
Amantombazane nabasefazane ekugqokweni kwamabhulukwe
Ngingalivumela itshitshi lami ligqoke ibhulukwe? Ngakhuliswa ekhaya labazalwane abanomthetho lakhona kwakaugcizelelwa ukugqoka ngesizotha kwamantombazane. Ukusho ngqo ,uMawami wangenza ngiqonde ukuthi amantombazane akumele agqoke ibhulukwe ,” owesifazane makangagqoki okwendoda ,nendoda mayingembathi ingubo yowesifazane ,ngokuba yilowo nalowo okwenza lokho uyisinengiso kuJehova uNkulunkulu wakho” [Dut 22:5] .Kulezinsuku abesifazane sebegqoke amabhulukwe –hhayi nje ekhaya…
Ukuxoxa nomuntu omusha ngokuzibulala komngani wakhe kumbe amjwayele
‘Ngixoxe kanjani nomfana wami osemusha ,mayelana nomngani wakhe osanda kuzibulala ? Lowomfana bebengaphezu kokujwayelwana naye ,manje ngiyazi lesisenzo siwuphulile umoya womfana wami ngokujulile.Ningangisiza ukungicija ukubeka kahle lesihloko kuye ?’
Ukululama Enhliziyweni Emva Kwesimo Esibuhlungu
Ngingathola kanjani ukululama ekuhlasimuleni komzimba nosizi ? Inyanga yonke edlule ngakithi sibhekane nezikhukhula ezibuhlungu.Thina nje silahlekelwe yikhaya ,ukuphazamiseka kwesikole nomsebenzi okuchaza ukuma kweholo ,ukusambatheka ngekusasa.Manje njengokuba lokho sekwedlule ,sisagotshiswe amadlangala kwenye indawo ,siyimindeni,sengiqale ukubona ukuthi sisazophila nobuhlungu balesikhukhula eside isikhathi lesi .Ningangisiza ukudondolozela kulomqansa?
Izizathu ukulubekela Imfundo Ephakeme
Kungani kumele ngiye e University ? Indlela mina engibuka ngayo ,amakolishi awabumbi isizukulwane esilandelayo ukuba sibe abadala abanokhiqhizo nobuholi,lokho okungasizi mfundi ukufinyelela ezimpokophelweni zakhe .Kungani uzicwilise ezikweletini ngenxa nje yokuthi kunomuntu olindele ube neziqu ? Kungani uchithe iminyaka yakho emide usebenzela ucwezu lwephepha nje ologcina lukubeka ezingeni lokuhola okufanayo nongenalo?…
Umkhwenyana ozibuza ngakube abambe iqhaza lokuba ngumama
Kukhona oku-wrong ngobaba abahlala ekhaya? Njengamanje angisebenzi kanti nonkosikazi wami uhola kahle ,lokho okwenza ngibone kungcono nginakekele ikhaya nabantwana .Ngisaqala kwakubukeka kungumqondo omuhle kodwa manje senginongabazane.